Michigan Domestic Violence Defense Lawyers

Aggressive Defense for Domestic Violence & Assault Charges

Being accused of domestic violence can destroy your reputation, your career, and your family relationships. Whether you're facing false accusations, defending against exaggerated claims, or dealing with a situation that was blown out of proportion, you need experienced trial attorneys who will fight for your rights. We defend clients facing all domestic violence charges in Michigan with judgment-free, aggressive representation.

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Time is critical in domestic violence cases. Contact us now for a free, confidential consultation to discuss your charges and defense strategy.


Understanding Michigan Domestic Violence Charges

Michigan law defines domestic violence broadly, covering not just physical violence but also threats and intimidation between family or household members. You can be charged with domestic violence even if no one was injured, even if the alleged victim doesn't want to press charges, and even if the allegations are completely false.

Who counts as a "domestic" relationship under Michigan law?

  • Spouse or former spouse
  • Someone you're dating or have dated
  • Someone you live with or used to live with
  • Someone with whom you have a child in common
  • Family members (parents, siblings, etc.)

Once police are called to a domestic violence situation, they often appear to feel obligated to arrest someone if they believe assault occurred. This often means someone gets arrested even when the situation was minor, mutual, or completely misunderstood.

Domestic Assault (First Offense)

The most common domestic violence charge. Assault or assault and battery against a family or household member. First offense is a misdemeanor with up to 93 days in jail and $500 fine. This includes pushing, slapping, grabbing, or any unwanted physical contact.

Domestic Assault (Second Offense)

If you have a prior domestic violence conviction, a second offense is a misdemeanor with up to 1 year in jail and $1,000 fine. The penalties increase significantly, and judges are less lenient.

Domestic Assault (Third Offense)

A third domestic violence conviction is a felony punishable by up to 5 years in prison. This is a serious felony conviction that permanently affects your life.

Domestic Violence with Serious Injury

If the alleged victim suffered serious or aggravated injury, you can be charged with aggravated domestic violence even on a first offense. First offense is a misdemeanor with up to 1 year in jail and $1,000 fine. Second or subsequent offenses become a felony with up to 5 years in prison.

Felonious Assault (Domestic Context)

Assault with a dangerous weapon (knife, gun, bottle, vehicle) in a domestic situation is a felony punishable by up to 4 years in prison. Prosecutors often charge this when any object was used during the altercation.

Stalking or Aggravated Stalking

Repeatedly following, contacting, or harassing someone in a way that causes them fear can result in stalking charges, which often accompany DV cases. This is a misdemeanor or felony depending on circumstances.

Assault & Battery (Simple Assault)

In some cases, prosecutors may charge simple assault instead of domestic violence if the relationship doesn't fit the domestic definition or if they want to avoid mandatory no-contact orders.


Michigan Domestic Violence Penalties: What You're Facing

The consequences of a domestic violence conviction in Michigan are severe, long-lasting, and go far beyond jail time and fines. Consequences often include:

First Offense Domestic Violence

  • Jail: Up to 93 days
  • Fines: Up to $500 (plus court costs)
  • Probation: Up to 2 years and often with strict conditions
  • Domestic Violence Treatment: Court-ordered anger management and domestic violence counseling (26-52 weeks)
  • Criminal Record: Misdemeanor conviction that shows on background checks
  • No-Contact Order: Prohibited from contacting the alleged victim (even if they want contact)
  • Loss of Gun Rights: Federal law prohibits gun possession for anyone convicted of a "misdemeanor crime of domestic violence" (lifetime ban)

Second Offense Domestic Violence

  • Jail: Up to 1 year
  • Fines: Up to $1,000 (plus costs)
  • Probation: Extended probation with strict reporting requirements
  • Mandatory Treatment: Longer domestic violence intervention programs
  • Enhanced Consequences: Judges impose harsher sentences on repeat offenders

Third Offense Felony Domestic Violence

  • Prison: Up to 5 years in state prison
  • Fines: Up to $5,000
  • Felony Record: Permanent felony conviction affecting employment, housing, voting rights
  • Parole: Extended parole supervision after release
  • Lifetime Gun Ban: Permanent prohibition on firearms possession

Beyond the Criminal Penalties

A domestic violence conviction affects every aspect of your life:

  • Custody & Parenting Time: Family courts presume that a DV conviction means you're an unfit parent. You may lose custody or have supervised visitation only.
  • Divorce Proceedings: A DV conviction gives your spouse enormous leverage in divorce negotiations and property division.
  • Employment: Criminal record causes job loss or prevents future employment, especially in healthcare, education, childcare, or jobs requiring background checks.
  • Professional Licenses: Doctors, nurses, lawyers, teachers, real estate agents may face license suspension or revocation.
  • Immigration: Non-citizens face deportation or denial of citizenship. DV convictions are deportable offenses.
  • Gun Rights: Federal law imposes a lifetime ban on gun possession for domestic violence misdemeanors. This includes hunting rifles, even if you need firearms for work.
  • Housing: Landlords routinely deny applicants with domestic violence convictions.
  • Military Service: Active duty service members face court-martial, discharge, and loss of benefits.
  • College & Financial Aid: Criminal record affects admissions and eligibility for student loans.

The bottom line: A domestic violence conviction isn't just a mark on your record—it can permanently destroy your relationship with your children, cost you your career, and strip you of your constitutional rights. This is why you need an aggressive defense from day one.


How We Defend Domestic Violence Charges

Domestic violence cases are different from other criminal cases. They're emotionally charged, evidence is often limited to "he said / she said," and prosecutors are under political pressure to secure convictions. We know how to navigate these cases and build winning defenses.

False Accusations & Fabricated Stories

Unfortunately, false accusations are common in domestic violence cases, especially during:

  • Divorce or custody disputes
  • Breakups or arguments about relationships
  • Situations where someone wants you out of the house
  • Revenge for perceived wrongs
  • Mental health crises or substance abuse situations

We investigate thoroughly, looking for:

  • Inconsistencies in the alleged victim's statements to police, medical professionals, and witnesses
  • Motive to fabricate (custody battles, property disputes, new relationships)
  • History of false allegations against you or others
  • Text messages, emails, or social media posts that contradict their story
  • Witness testimony that disproves the allegations

Self-Defense

Michigan law gives you the right to defend yourself from assault—even in domestic situations. If you were protecting yourself from an attack, we present that defense. Key questions:

  • Who was the initial aggressor?
  • Did you have a reasonable fear of harm?
  • Was your response proportional to the threat?
  • Were you preventing imminent harm?

Many domestic violence arrests involve mutual combat—both people were fighting—but only one person gets arrested. We show the full context to demonstrate you were defending yourself.

Defense of Others

If you were protecting a child, family member, or another person from harm, this is a complete legal defense. We establish:

  • Someone else was in danger
  • Your actions were necessary to protect them
  • You used reasonable force

Challenging the Evidence

Domestic violence cases often rely on weak evidence. We attack:

  • Lack of Injuries: If the alleged victim has no injuries or only minor scratches, this undermines the assault claim
  • No Independent Witnesses: If it's just "he said / she said" with no witnesses, we create reasonable doubt
  • Conflicting Statements: We compare the alleged victim's initial 911 call, police statement, and later testimony for inconsistencies
  • Photos and Medical Records: We review all photographic evidence and medical records; often injuries are exaggerated or aren't consistent with the alleged assault
  • Your Injuries: If you have injuries, this supports self-defense and shows you were the victim

Exaggeration & Embellishment

Even when something happened, the story often gets exaggerated:

  • A verbal argument becomes a "threatening" situation
  • Defensive blocking becomes "pushing" or "shoving"
  • Mutual combat becomes one-sided assault
  • Emotional distress becomes physical assault

We show the jury or judge what actually happened versus the inflated version the prosecution presents.

Accidents & Unintentional Contact

Sometimes physical contact was accidental:

  • You were trying to leave and accidentally bumped into someone blocking the door
  • You were trying to take your phone back and there was incidental contact
  • You moved someone's arm away from you and they claim you "pushed" them

Michigan law requires intent to commit assault. If contact was accidental, there's no crime.

Constitutional Violations

We examine whether police violated your rights:

  • Did police have probable cause to arrest you?
  • Did they properly investigate or just believe one side of the story?
  • Were you questioned without being read your Miranda rights?
  • Was evidence illegally obtained?

If your rights were violated, we can seek to get evidence suppressed or charges dismissed.

Recanting Victims & Non-Cooperation

In many cases, the alleged victim wants to drop the charges. However, the victim cannot drop charges—only the prosecutor can. But when victims refuse to cooperate, prosecutors have a much weaker case:

  • If the victim won't testify, prosecutors may be forced to dismiss
  • If the victim recants, we use that to show the allegations were false or exaggerated
  • If the victim minimizes what happened, we use that to negotiate reduced charges

Negotiating Reduced Charges or Dismissal

When trial isn't the best option, we negotiate aggressively:

  • Domestic Violence to Simple Assault: Avoids the domestic violence label, no lifetime gun ban
  • Dismissal with Conditions: Complete anger management, stay away from victim, and charges are dismissed
  • Delayed Sentence: Successfully complete probation and the case is dismissed (no conviction on record)
  • Diversion Programs: For first-time offenders, complete treatment and avoid conviction

What to Do After a Domestic Violence Arrest

The actions you take immediately after arrest can make or break your case. Here's what you need to know:

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Do Not Talk to Police Without a Lawyer

Police will try to get you to "tell your side of the story." DO NOT DO IT. Anything you say will be used against you. Police are not your friends—they are building a case against you. Invoke your right to remain silent and request an attorney immediately. Call us at (616) 227-3303.

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Do NOT Contact the Alleged Victim

The court will likely issue a no-contact order. Do not violate it. Do not call, text, email, or go near the person—even if they contact you first, even if they want to talk, even if they say they'll drop the charges. Violating a no-contact order results in additional criminal charges and makes your case much worse. All contact must go through your attorney.

3

Contact an Attorney Immediately

Domestic violence cases move quickly. Evidence disappears, memories fade, and critical decisions must be made within hours of an arrest. Every case is different, and the right strategy depends on the specific facts of your situation.

Call us now at (616) 227-3303 for a free, confidential consultation. We will discuss your case, explain your options, and guide you through the next steps.

The sooner we start working together, the more options you'll have for your defense.

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Do Not Post on Social Media

Prosecutors will review all your social media. Do not post about the case, do not make comments about the alleged victim, do not post photos or status updates that could be used against you. Assume everything you post online will be shown to a judge or jury.

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Prepare for Bond Conditions

At your arraignment, the court will set bond and impose conditions such as:

  • No contact with the alleged victim
  • GPS tether monitoring
  • Alcohol/drug testing
  • Surrender of firearms
  • Stay away from victim's home and workplace

Violating bond conditions results in arrest and additional charges. Follow all conditions strictly. If conditions are too restrictive (e.g., you need access to your home or children), we can file a motion to modify.


Why Choose Sorin & Pyle for Your Domestic Violence Defense

Domestic violence charges require experienced criminal defense attorneys who understand the unique challenges of these cases and aren't afraid to fight for you.

⚖️ Former Public Defender Experience

Attorneys Sorin Panainte and Jonathan Pyle served as public defenders, handling hundreds of domestic violence cases and learning how prosecutors build their cases. This insider knowledge gives us a strategic advantage in identifying weaknesses and building winning defenses.

🏛️ Trial Lawyers, Not Plea Lawyers

We're not afraid to take your case to trial. We've taken domestic violence cases to trial and achieved not guilty verdicts for our clients. When the evidence supports fighting, we fight. We don't pressure you to plead guilty.

📍 Local Court Knowledge

We appear regularly in Ottawa County, Kent County, and West Michigan courts. We know the local prosecutors, judges, and court procedures. This familiarity helps us navigate your case effectively and anticipate how different courts handle domestic violence charges.

🚫 Judgment-Free Representation

Our philosophy: WE GIVE A [EXPLETIVE]! We don't judge you. We understand that relationships are complicated, that people say and do things they regret, and that accusations don't always reflect reality. We fight for your rights and your future.

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Protecting Your Parental Rights

We understand that domestic violence charges threaten your relationship with your children. We coordinate with family law attorneys and fight to protect your parenting time and custody rights. A DV conviction doesn't have to mean losing your kids.

🔫 Protecting Your Gun Rights

Domestic violence convictions result in a lifetime federal gun ban. If you hunt, collect firearms, or need guns for work, we fight to avoid a DV conviction and preserve your Second Amendment rights.

💰 Payment Plans Available

Legal fees shouldn't prevent you from getting the defense you deserve. We offer payment plans for qualified clients. Call us to discuss options that fit your budget.


Common Domestic Violence Defense Questions

Can domestic violence charges be dropped?

Legally, only the prosecutor can drop charges—the alleged victim cannot. However, victims often want charges dropped, and their refusal to cooperate makes the prosecutor's job much harder.

When charges may be dropped or dismissed:

  • Evidence is insufficient to prove guilt beyond a reasonable doubt
  • We demonstrate the allegations were false or exaggerated
  • Constitutional violations or police misconduct occurred
  • Negotiations result in dismissal in exchange for conditions (anger management, etc.)

Even when the victim wants charges dropped, prosecutors sometimes proceed anyway, especially in serious cases or repeat offenses. An experienced attorney can negotiate with prosecutors and present evidence supporting dismissal.

What if the allegations are completely false?

False allegations are unfortunately common in domestic violence cases, particularly during divorce, custody disputes, or breakups. We've represented many clients facing fabricated accusations and know how to challenge them effectively.

How we prove false allegations:

  • Demonstrate inconsistencies in the alleged victim's statements
  • Show motive to lie (custody battle, property dispute, new relationship)
  • Present alibi evidence or witnesses who disprove the allegations
  • Introduce text messages, emails, or recordings that contradict their story
  • Show history of false accusations by the alleged victim
  • Highlight lack of injuries or physical evidence

If you're facing false accusations, contact us immediately. The sooner we start investigating, the better we can expose the lies.

Will I lose custody of my children?

A domestic violence conviction can affect custody and parenting time, but it doesn't automatically mean you lose your children.

How DV charges affect custody:

  • During the case: The court may order supervised parenting time or restrict contact temporarily
  • If convicted: Family courts presume DV offenders are a risk to children, which can result in reduced parenting time or supervised visitation
  • If charges are dismissed or you're found not guilty: You have a much stronger custody case

How we protect your parental rights:

  • Fight for not guilty verdict or dismissal to avoid conviction on your record
  • Negotiate reduced charges that don't carry the "domestic violence" label
  • Coordinate with family law attorneys to protect custody during criminal proceedings
  • Present evidence that you're a good parent and pose no danger to your children

Call us immediately at (616) 227-3303 if you're facing DV charges and custody is at stake.

What happens to my gun rights?

This is one of the most serious consequences of a domestic violence conviction. Federal law (the Lautenberg Amendment) imposes a lifetime ban on gun possession for anyone convicted of a "misdemeanor crime of domestic violence."

What this means:

  • You cannot own, possess, or purchase any firearms—forever
  • This includes rifles and shotguns for hunting
  • You must surrender all firearms you currently own
  • Possession of a firearm after a DV conviction is a federal felony with up to 10 years in prison (15 years if you have three prior violent felony or serious drug convictions)

How to protect your gun rights:

  • Fight for not guilty verdict: No conviction = no gun ban
  • Negotiate to non-DV charge: Simple assault or other charges don't trigger the gun ban
  • Pursue dismissal: If charges are dismissed, you keep your gun rights

If you hunt, collect firearms, or need guns for work (law enforcement, security, military), tell us immediately. We'll fight to avoid a DV conviction and preserve your Second Amendment rights.

Can I be convicted if there are no injuries or witnesses?

Yes, you can be convicted even without visible injuries or independent witnesses. However, these cases are much weaker and easier to defend.

Why prosecutors pursue cases without evidence:

  • Political pressure to be "tough on domestic violence"
  • They rely on the alleged victim's testimony alone
  • They hope you'll plead guilty to avoid trial

How we defend "he said / she said" cases:

  • Create reasonable doubt by showing inconsistencies in the alleged victim's story
  • Demonstrate lack of physical evidence (no injuries, no broken items, no 911 call)
  • Show motive to fabricate or exaggerate
  • Present your testimony explaining what really happened
  • Attack the credibility of the alleged victim's testimony

Without injuries or witnesses, the prosecution's case is weaker. Cases like these are often dismissed or result in not guilty verdicts.

What is a no-contact order and what happens if I violate it?

If you're arrested for domestic violence, the judge will very likely impose a no-contact order at your arraignment (usually 24-48 hours after arrest). This is a criminal court order—a condition of your bond—that prohibits you from contacting the alleged victim.

How criminal no-contact orders work:

  • Prosecutors routinely request no-contact orders, and judges commonly grant them in domestic violence cases
  • You cannot contact the alleged victim by phone, text, email, social media, or through third parties
  • You may be required to stay away from their home, workplace, or children's school
  • The order remains in effect until your case is resolved (months or even a year+)

Consequences of violating a no-contact order:

  • Immediate Arrest: You will be arrested and jailed—often without bond
  • New Criminal Charges: Bond violation is a separate criminal offense
  • Damages Your Case: Prosecutors will use the violation against you as evidence you're dangerous or can't follow rules
  • Even if the Victim Contacts You: You still violate the order by responding—the victim won't face consequences, but you will

How we can help with no-contact orders:

  • Negotiate modifications at arraignment (allow contact for parenting exchanges, living together, etc.)
  • File motions to modify or lift unreasonable restrictions
  • Arrange supervised communication through third parties when necessary
  • Defend you if you're accused of a violation

Do not violate the no-contact order under any circumstances, even if the alleged victim begs you to come home or texts you first. Call us to discuss modifications or legal options.

Should I accept a plea deal?

Maybe—it depends on the strength of the prosecution's case, the evidence, what's being offered, and your particular priorities. Never accept a plea deal without consulting an experienced attorney first.

We'll thoroughly review the evidence, evaluate the prosecution's case, and advise you on whether to accept a plea or take your case to trial. The decision is always yours, but we'll give you honest, experience based, strategic advice.

What counties do you serve?

We defend domestic violence cases throughout West Michigan including Ottawa, Kent, Allegan, Kalamazoo, Muskegon, Van Buren, and Newaygo counties. Our primary service areas include Holland, Grand Rapids, Grand Haven, Zeeland, Hudsonville, Kalamazoo, and Muskegon.


Common Mistakes That Destroy Your Domestic Violence Defense

We see clients make the same costly mistakes over and over. Don't let this be you:

❌ Talking to Police Without a Lawyer

"I didn't mean to hurt her" or "We were both fighting" are statements that WILL convict you. Police are not on your side. They're building a case against you. Invoke your right to remain silent and call an attorney immediately at (616) 227-3303.

❌ Violating the No-Contact Order

Do NOT contact the alleged victim—even if they contact you first, even if they say they want the charges dropped, even if you live together. Violating a no-contact order results in immediate arrest and additional criminal charges. All contact must go through your attorney.

❌ Accepting a Plea Deal Without Fighting

Prosecutors offer plea deals to avoid trial—not because they're doing you a favor. Many domestic violence cases have weak evidence and can be won at trial or dismissed. Never plead guilty to domestic violence without consulting an experienced attorney who will actually investigate your case.

❌ Posting on Social Media

Prosecutors will review all your social media. That angry post about your ex? That joke about the case? That photo from the night in question? All admissible evidence against you. Delete nothing (it looks like you're hiding evidence), but post nothing new until your case is closed.

❌ Trying to Contact the Alleged Victim Through Third Parties

Don't ask friends or family to relay messages to the alleged victim. Don't have your mom call them. Don't send messages through your kids. This violates the no-contact order and will result in additional charges. The prosecutor will find out.

❌ Waiting Too Long to Hire a Lawyer

Evidence disappears. Witnesses forget. Your arraignment happens quickly, and bond conditions will be set. The sooner we start building your defense, the better your outcome. Call us TODAY at (616) 227-3303 for a free consultation.

❌ Hiring the Cheapest Lawyer

This is your freedom, your children, your gun rights, your career. A lawyer who handles DV cases occasionally isn't the same as one who defends domestic violence charges every week. Your future is worth investing in experienced, aggressive defense.

Don't Face Domestic Violence Charges Alone

A domestic violence accusation can destroy your life, your relationships, and your future. But accusations aren't convictions. With aggressive defense from experienced trial lawyers, you can fight back. We've successfully defended hundreds of domestic violence cases in West Michigan—achieving dismissals, not guilty verdicts, and reduced charges. (Past results do not guarantee similar outcomes.) Let us fight for you.

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